Chinese Etiquette,a Nation of Etiquette
2 min readMianzi(Face)
The idea of shame,usually expressed as”face”could be loosely defined as the”status”or “self-respect”in Chinese and by no means alien to foreigners.It is the worst thing for a Chinese to lose face.Never insult,embarrass,shame,yell at or otherwise demean a person.Since all these actions would risk putting a Chinese in a situation that he might lose face.Neither try to prove someone wrong nor shout at him in public.In order to get a successful effect without letting a Chinese lose face,any criticism should be delivered privately,discreetly and tactfully. or else,.just opposite to what you wish.
Guanxi(Relationships between People)
Throughout much of Chinese history.the fundamental glue that has held sociery together is the concept of guanxi,relationships between people.it is very important for the Chinese to have good relationships.They often regard good social relations as a symbol of personal ability and infiuence.Someone who has no connections would be despised and is only half-Chinese.
Keqi
Keqi not only means being considerate,polite,and well mannered.but also represents humbleness and modesty.It is impolite to be arrogant and orag aboui oneself or one’s inner circle.The expression is most often used in the negauve,as mn buyao keqi.meanina “.you shouldn’t be so kind and polite to me,”or”you’re welcome.”
Besides,Chinese people seldom express what they think drreetry aind they prefer a roundabout way.Neither do they show their emotions and teelings in pubiic.Ihey rareiy greet people with a handshake,though it is very popular among foreigners,to say nothing of embracing or kissing when greeiing or saying good-bye,Consequenlly,it is better not to behave too carefree in public, cven though you are well-intentioned.Also,it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions.Do not particularly push yourself forward,or else you are unwelcome.
