Day After the Wedding and the Three Days After the Wedding
1 min readDay After the Wedding
On the day after the wedding,the bride awoke early to attend honoring the ancestors at dawn.It was only then that she was formally introduced to the groom’s relatives and friends.As she knelt before each of the older relatives,she received a small gift.The bride’s parents-in-law gaveher a title according to her husband’s seniority in the family hierarchy.
Three Days After the Wedding
In general,three days after the wedding,the couple paid a visit to the bride’s family home,where the bride is now received as a guest.
Many rituals and customs have been lost or amended over thousands of years of civilization.However,the reciprocal gift-giving etiquette is well preserved as a cultural icon.
The newlyweds will visit the bride’s parent’s three days after the wedding.They will bring certain gifts,and the bride’s family is supposed to return part of the gifts,plus some gifts from them.List of Gifts from Bride’s Family on 3-day Visit:
1.The head and tail plus feet and half of the roast pig brought by the groom.It indicates there is a beginning and end.
2.Liquor one bottle,any style of cake one box.
3.Fruit and Sheng Cai,a vegetable that has the pronunciation of“lively”.4.Bamboo stick to indicate raising up step after step.
5.Green onion which pronounces as“Cong”,the same pronunciation as“plentiful”financially.
6.Baby chicken in lantern box.